"I don't know how you do it!" A phrase I've been hearing repeatedly over the past few months. As a homeschooling mother of 5 beautiful kids (one yet 'prelaunched') whose husband is actively running for the federal office of US House Representative, it's not an unfair statement. Unknown to most, however, is the great comedy that accompanies my day-to-day, and the brilliant love that fills our home. While the calendar is a massive, out of control, chaotic, frenzy of activity most of the time, we are balanced by grace and understanding. I also have help. Wonderful help. Jess and I have chosen to surround ourselves with people who share our faith, support our vision, and hold themselves to high standards of moral character. These beautiful friends hold us up in prayer, contribute richly to our lives, and serve as loving examples to our children.
The "Jesse Young for US Congress campaign" is very much a family affair! Knowing how much time is required to reach a district as extensive as Washington's 6th has compelled us to involve the kids in as much of the process as possible. Our 'sweet ones' will be with us at speaking events, club meetings, doorbellings, and sign/flag waving. While their involvement provides for some very comical moments, we wouldn't have it any other way! Not all hearts and flowers, however, there are definitely other moments that try our patience and add occasional stress. All together, I'll try to present a unique and true portrait of our experiences.
My hope is that the random entries here will serve to entertain and inspire in this often tense environment of politically charged, opinionated, sometimes disrespectful atmosphere. I have lost patience with grown adults behaving like spoiled toddlers when confronted with a view that contradicts their own. As I expect my children to treat each other lovingly and with respect, I hold myself to this value. This will not be a venue to rant and rave at opposing perspectives. Possibly naive, I truly believe that most Americans want the very best for America, but it's the method of how to ensure our country's greatness that we disagree upon. So... let's remember what our moms told us all when we were kids: If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.
Off my soapbox now, I'm happy to welcome you to join our 'Campaigning Youngfam' online blog. As I'd welcome you into my home, I'll invite you to kick off your shoes and make yourself comfortable. A rule at my house is that you're a guest only for your first visit... after that, you're like part of our family! Personally, I've got my high-heeled shoes kicked off, my pearls on, and a big pregnant belly propping up my laptop computer... how about a cup of tea and good conversation?
Houston Summer #1
2 years ago
Great blog!
ReplyDeleteIf this were a game of poker, I'd say... I'll meet your wonderful surround, cup of tea and conversation but, with all due respect, I'll raise you one challenge (and I can't help but wonder if you might not agree? :-):
I don't know about other gals, but the only thing in your post that you cannot hold ME to is the "don't say anything at all..." requirement, based on a factor of "nice."
I 100% agree that NICE is wonderful and beautiful and, ideally, nice should fill the world! But, for me, TRUTH ranks much higher in importance and, the reality I've come to face is that the truth isn't always pretty / nice. It is what it is! So... while the 1950s advice my own mother passed down may have gone a long way in her day, I can't help but think that no amount of 2010 lipstick slapped on it is gonna change the fact that we must speak the truth, even if it's not nice, in a currently charged and chaotic political environment in America. Having said this though... if we think about it, this is actually a beautiful thing, because dealing with the truth is the most beautiful and "nice" activity in which any American could possibly engage right now. Because the truth sets us free and liberty itself is the most American of all destinations we could seek!
So, maybe we 2010 moms can update that advice, what do you think? Maybe..."if you can't say anything RESPECTFULLY, don't say anything at all?"
So, when do you stop wearing those heels entirely? I finally accepted I could no longer roller blade at 5 mos. with my second child...balance wasn't what it once was!!
~Tristan Benz
Maiden America